February, 2014 Archive
on adoration | our different sameness
February 27th, 2014

“What you seek is seeking you.” – Rumi

Adoration: a deep love, devotion, and reverence. A call to look closer – to see within another being something of the divine and to see within your connection to that being something of the divine in you. I never knew adoration until I grew into motherhood (and it should be noted that I am still growing). I love my children completely. But then, there are moments when I simply adore them. It overwhelms me and crushes me and completes me. Who I am and who they are melt away to reveal something far more profound. God is there in that intense love. A fullness and richness and holiness lies in that adoration. It is so complex and yet so simple. What you seek is seeking you. And, in those moments, connection!

My second daughter Eliot came screaming into this world. She was so full of fire and beauty. When I laid eyes on her, I saw God looking back. That moment was my miracle. It was my connection. It was terrifying. And, it was beautiful. A moment of adoration so rich and full that it cleaved my life in two. There was my life before that moment and there is my life after. To honor that moment, I chose an image of Eliot for my contribution to our project this month. It was important to me that I avoided a more traditional composition, because I wanted the image to be representative of a feeling and a moment rather than a person. Because her eyes are not present in the image, it makes it more anonymous and allows it to represent both of my daughters instead of just one.

My adoration for my children has proven not a distinct and exclusive emotion but an endless spring to draw upon in all moments of my life. Through it I see all things differently. It is my touchstone. It is my guide.

I leave you with a quote that probably says better than me some of what I wished to say.

“Issues of love bear on our opening to the basic nature of reality as compassion, and beginning to see that we are fundamentally not separate from others or from the basic ground. This makes our ability to love and our nourishment from love more unconditional. Love is not merely an emotion. It is a meltdown that reestablishes a more unified space of brilliance, goodness, and sadness. This is the real of function of love in spiritual tradition.” – Lama Lodro Dorje

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Our Different Sameness is the combined effort of a group of photographers seeking to explore our human connection through images and words. In our attempt to authentically capture what may prove to be intangible and elusive, we seek only to journey together honestly. Every month, we will explore what it means to be human, and how we experience life as part of a collective. Our goal is not only to explore these themes, but to celebrate the sameness we find within them. To learn more about the project and view our work, visit us here.

Val, Charlie & Hardin | at home in Dallas, Texas
February 25th, 2014

Val, Charlie & Hardin,

Marriage made us family. But, it didn’t make us friends. It didn’t make us loved ones. Something else – something far larger and more fantastic – brought us together and made us that and for that I am so very grateful. You see, one of the greatest gifts in my life is my connection with your family.

Photographing the three of you was a gift to me, because it caused me to pause and to truly look at you – to see you. I see love. And, I hope you see love also. Because the love between the three of you is a thing to be celebrated – the joy, the commitment, the strength and, always, the devotion. Let these images remind you of that.

Let these images also remind you that you are loved by me. And, let them serve as my thanks to you for your friendship, your laughter, your support, and your companionship. xo.











these two sisters | a project in 52 weeks
February 20th, 2014

Hey! You made my sister cry.

week 7 (2 of 3)

week 7 (3 of 3)

week 7 (1 of 3)

For the record, smearing cashew butter on the table is not acceptable. Plates get taken away. Little girls cry. Good thing big sisters are there to comfort them.

week seven

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